Morning Chorus: Perceptions of invisible illnesses »

morningchorus:

Trigger warnings for disordered eating, depression/suicide, ableism

When I was a year old I was diagnosed with asthma. My childhood is filled with memories of hospital visits, waking up unable to breathe, and not being able to do what the other children could do.

And then there were the…

"Just because my disability is invisible doesn’t mean I am. Just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. It is real. Just as real as the visible disabilities. Just as real as the more “severe” disabilities. Invisible Disabilities are real. These include learning disabilities, ADD/ADHD, certain behavioral and psychiatric disabilities, certain health impairments, certain cases of Autism Spectrum Disorders, certain cases of Intellectual Disabilities, and yes even some cases of physical disabilities. Just so you know- calling someone “able bodied” is a judgement and in many cases is false. Stop telling someone who “looks typical” that they can’t possibly have a disability. Stop telling someone who looks so “normal” that they are able bodied. You can’t know that for sure. Just so you know, invisible disabilities: just because you don’t see it doesn’t mean it’s not there. It doesn’t make it false, pretend or made up. How would we know air is there? We need it to breathe, you cannot see it. We have disabilities- but you can’t see them. We have them and yet we have a right to live the life we choose. Just because our disabilities are invisible doesn’t mean we are."

Me. After talking to someone about my life with invisible disabilities. By the way, the phrase “my disability is invisible- I’m not.” is the phrase from the National Learning Disabilities Initiative that I absolutely love. (via getin2myhead21)

[–]MrMischief0220[S]

It pisses me off more than anything. I should also add, I don’t mind whether or not people or any of you for that matter ask about my disability, but be respectful about it. Once when I was sixteen I was in a gamestop and stood myself up from my wheelchair to grab a game off of a shelf that was a bit out of my reach. After I paid for it and left, some lady who was watching me follows me out and says “Hey! What’s wrong with you?” I turned around a little shocked and said, “What?” She says, “You’re in a wheelchair but you can stand. What’s wrong with you?” I said, “Bitch, none of your damn business!” She had this shocked look on her face as I coasted away.

Ableism and voting.

kalany:

Dear Precinct Polling Workers,

If I ask for help filling out a form, please do NOT ask me why. If you don’t ask the lovely 80-year-old next to me, it is NOT APPROPRIATE to ask me either.

However, thank you for taking my non-answer and shutting up, and thank you for not arguing about helping me.

Thank you,

An invisibly disabled voter

Invisible Illness Challenge Day 23

justtakeitforgranted:

Want to know a secret? One thing people say that gets under my skin is:

Well, it’s not a secret, but any time people assume that lacking the motivation to do something you want to do just means you don’t actually want it enough. Just want it more, that’ll fix you. God, you’re just lazy.

The Ramblings of Otakulord89: Not sure what offended that woman more, my disability or my gender presentation. »

otakulord89:

Today when I was at the store with my mom and dad, I decided to use the bathroom and used my old “If I am not back in 20 minutes, I have fallen and I can’t get up.” The gender-neutral ADA bathroom was absolutely horrid because someone didn’t dispose of a diaper properly almost like someone purpose…

Hooray! Thanks for sharing :)